Lets get straight to the point. I Dont Get It.
I Dont Get It when we, girls/ladies/women, have to know how to do housework or cooking.
I think you guys have sort of get what I am going to say right? Smart, yes. Today I am going to write out all my doubts.
Housework. Personally, I Don’t like to do housework. Why? It is because my nose will get irritated and I will go sneezing for the rest of the day. Put that point aside, why can’t guys do housework? I mean like, they got their ego or whatever shit. So what, we girls dont have? I really hate the fact that, the fate of women is being stuck with the housework thing.
Please, for God sake, this is the modern time. A world of equilibrium. No childish discrimination, and everyone has the rights to be free. In the past, I do agree that guys will work and be the breadwinner in the house. For women, just be a typical housewife and take good care of the household stuffs. However, what if it was not set like this in the ancient time, do you think that this kind of thinking will appear in this current time? Well, for me, i will not think so. Anyways, i bet the person who set this ‘rule’ must be a guy. Confirm.
Somemore, education have changed. Both girls and boys will get to study, and be treated the same. What does this mean? This means that girls will tend to be career-minded too and want to strive for a status in the society. If guys can, why can’t girls? So, i dont see the point for them to give up everything just for the family when they can maybe even be better than some of the guys out there. In addition, they gave up everything and they must fear that their husbands will have affairs with other women out there. To me, totally not worth it. This is just unfair. For me, it is never fair.
In my house too, my dad has always wanted to have a son. However, my mom gave birth to 3 children without birdies. Even though my dad didnt say anything, i can see that he do have some regrets. Up till now, my elder sister is a chemist and my second sister is a nurse. For me, my sisters are already successful enough as compared to some others out there. This shows that, it is no difference having girls or boys.
I know i shouldn’t care about what people are thinking and saying. However, i just cannot take it when they will even say stuffs like,’ you dont even know how to do housework, what more you can do?’ Hello, my life isn’t any of your concern. Guys do go NS, a.k.a National Service. They will be more matured, and sort of ‘grow up’. Sorry, i dont see the rights for you to say us, girls, just because you have to experience the dirty jobs. You people said that, because you all have FINALLY get to know how disgusting or tiring cleaning up is. If not, I dont even think you guys will ever mention it. So please, if you have tried it, dont try to influence people’s thoughts that we should do it too. Why? because, girls do have human rights and some values as well. Not only you guys.
One more point, i dont know why some guys can always think they are right? This is serious fucked up. They can never listen to girls. Only thinking that, girls are immature and cannot think ‘well’ like them. When they know they cannot fight the argument, they will go,’ aiya, you dont understand i am saying one.’
This is so fucking childish. I mean, cant you agree with it? for your information, i just choose to ignore it. If not, i will go on and on till we come to a agreement. Yes, i will.
Gosh, finally let out almost everything. However, i have to admit i do keep some and didnt say it. I felt relieved enough, :D